Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question Married 13 years. Husband still in affair. No kids. It's been an up and down year with this affair with no progress as a couple. I have grown and accepted my responsibility in the failure of the marriage. It was my actions that created a loneliness and hurt in him, thus he moved from friendship to affair with a co-worker. He won't file for divorce. I don't want the divorce, but I’m at the end of what I can do that can really matter an…