Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question My husband lives in another state and he travels a lot. He has been unfaithful to me 3 times. We are working on trying to recover a friendship after the 3rd affair that happened 31/2 months ago. He is trying hard, but he has still lied, how do I know how to really trust him if I can not see him everyday and check at his improvement. How do you think our talks on the phone should be. He is very hurt, his kids don't talk to him and don't w…