My husband says he loves me but seems to go out of his way to avoid giving me what I need to heal. He’s more concerned over himself having to feel guilt than he is that he broke me. He’s watched me go from a woman in love to a mere shell of a woman. I dont know of he loves me or not. My guess would be no. I feel like hes only with me for his own needs. But I know men aren't very good with showing certain parts of their emotions. I don't think my husband knows how to love a woman an treat her respectively like a woman is only as good as what shes got that he needs. I feel like i'm going to go insane with what his words are and how his actions don't back up his mouth. He will not validate my feelings but demands I do because the sadness i've caused is apparently more import and concerning.