My husband and I have been married 26 years. I have had two affairs, 10 years ago and 3 years ago. I learned 6 weeks ago, he was having affair with a lifelong friend of mine. Double betrayal. The pain and heartache I am experiencing have opened old wounds for my husband. He is no longer able to show empathy for the fresh wound I’m experiencing from his affair. We never properly healed from the past. Horrible counseling, etc. How can we find a way to move forward in EMS Online and our healing these wounds when we are both the betrayed and unfaithful?