My wife has left in late July and seems determined to continue her life with her AP. I recognize that we cannot reconcile unless she is willing to take at least some steps, but I am wrestling with the decision whether I want to try to recover the marriage. I must admit that I am fairly independent and confident, but I really want to lean to God for this critical decision. How can I know that I listened for His guidance, and not been swayed by my current mood or other factors?