Q&A Do I Have the Right to Know What My Spouse Is Doing to Monitor Me?

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My betrayed spouses refuses to tell me all the steps she took to know about my infidelity. I feel very unsafe with her. Am I allowed to know? She seems to have gotten a private investigator. Bugged my phone, etc. I am very uncomfortable with what she may have done and may be even still doing that I do not know, which could be harmful to me. I saw she bought a listening device. Do I have the right to know what was done or even still being done or am I not permitted to ask? I have told her everything now, I am rigorously honest. Is the 100% truth and transparency only applicable to the unfaithful?



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