My husband cheated multiple times. One affair was emotional and sexual, the others just sexual. The full affair happened 10 years ago, which I found out recently and it was already over. Why can’t I forgive the emotional and physical one? The one he gave her forehead kisses and hugged and slept with. The sexual ones only don’t seem to bother me. I feel like now any type of emotional rejection to me is like a slap in face. He’s trying and he says I just want things to be perfect all the time. I can’t let go of that one the one that haunts me. I feel like I have completely emotionally cut off from him it feels like hate. I don’t know what to do or why I stay.