Q&A Is It OK for the Wayward Spouse to Keep in Touch with Affair Partners from the past That Happened Years before Us?

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This particular woman is married with kids, but some of what is in the emails back and forth is very personal. He thinks of her often, and stalks her on Facebook. He’s not doing business in that part of the world anymore, but for her he would have to make an exception. We just recently attended an EMS Weekend, and are trying to do the work, but when I keep finding things like this I start to lose hope that he will ever change. I have been extremely sensitive to triggers since his betrayal of a year long emotional and physical affair with a woman, whom I knew personally. Full disclosure and discovery for that was 1 year and 2 months ago. Am I overreacting to these emails?



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