Q&A Is It Necessary for Him to Be Proactive or Should I Be Happy He’s Doing What I Ask of Him?

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My husband is doing the work. However, any work he has done is suggested by me or insisted by me. That said, he is doing things he’d never do before D-Day. It would mean more to me if he initiated something. If he read a book on his own that would blow my mind! I feel like I’m sorta enabling his laziness. Is it necessary for him to be proactive or should I be happy he’s doing what I ask of him? I have seen positive changes in him such as how he has opened up & communicates with me.



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