Q&A Are the Requests I’m Making to Feel Safe Unreasonable?

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D-Day was July 26th, two months ago. My husband had an affair that lasted about a year and a half, maybe longer but he hasn’t give me full disclosure so I really don’t know. He reached out to his ex through Facebook Messenger and that’s what they used to communicate throughout his affair. I’ve tried to set boundaries to feel safe and build trust but he refuses and says he’s entitled to his privacy. I asked for the Life 360 app so I can feel safe knowing he is where he says he is and not with her. I also asked for access to his social media because that’s what he used to cheat. He gets very angry, refusing to do it, and tells me it’ll cause more harm than good. This makes me feel he is still hiding something. What should I do? I can’t handle anymore secrets and lies. I feel completely insecure.



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