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274 Resources
Type Title Posted
Text Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 6/07/2023
Text Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 5/31/2023
Text How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023
Text Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 5/17/2023
Text What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity? 5/10/2023
Text When to Save a Marriage After Infidelity 5/03/2023
Text Your Brain on Porn and Understanding the Sex Addict 4/26/2023
Text Why People Cheat: Were They Predisposed to Cheat (Part 2) 4/12/2023
Text Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 4/05/2023
Text Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 3/29/2023
Text Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 3/22/2023
Text Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 3/15/2023
Text Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 3/08/2023
Text Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone 3/01/2023
Text How Could You? Part V - The Secrecy Factor 2/15/2023
Text How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 2/08/2023
Text How Could You? Part VI - Dehumanization and Blame 2/02/2023
Text How Could You? Part III: Moral Justification 2/01/2023
Text How Could You? Part II: The Thought Processes That Lead to Betrayal 1/25/2023
Text How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 1/18/2023
Text Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 1/11/2023
Text Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023
Text Revenge: Responding to an Affair 1/02/2023
Text Ever Wonder Why Men Cheat and Why Women Cheat? 12/14/2022
Text Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/07/2022
Text Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022
Text Healing After the Affair: Whether or Not to Get Help 11/23/2022
Text How to survive an affair – How much should I share with my spouse? 11/15/2022
Text Handling Disappointment After Infidelity 11/08/2022
Text The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022
Text Is Change Really Possible? 10/26/2022
Text Am I Who They Want? 10/19/2022
Text Were They Thinking of Me? 10/12/2022
Text The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022
Text Anger: Its 6 Roots 9/28/2022
Text Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 9/21/2022
Text The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 9/14/2022
Text Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/07/2022
Text Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair 8/31/2022
Text The Fantasyland of an Affair 8/24/2022
Text Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022
Text Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 8/10/2022
Text Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 8/03/2022
Text Should I Get a Divorce? Am I Being Naive? 7/27/2022
Text Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 7/20/2022
Text What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022
Text Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022
Text Common Justifications for Why Women Cheat 6/29/2022
Video How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence? 6/22/2022
Text Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022

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