Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How to Survive Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Recovery Timeline Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 262 Resources Type Title Posted Expert Q&A Preview: How Can I Give My Wife Hope after Betraying Her So Deeply? 5/03/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can My Husband Overcome His Ambivalence? 3/29/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: Am I Looking at Forgiveness Wrong? 2/28/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Handle the Abrupt Emotional Changes? 2/15/2017 The Valentine’s Day After Syndrome 2/08/2017 Battling Intrusive Thoughts and Physical Intimacy After Infidelity 12/13/2016 Surviving Infidelity: Are You Looking for an Explanation? 12/01/2016 Bad Advice for Hurt Spouses 11/16/2016 Q&A What does Full Disclosure of an Affair Look Like Practically? 9/28/2016 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 9/11/2016 The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 9/11/2016 Overcoming Trauma after Infidelity at EMS Weekend, Interviewing an Expert 8/24/2016 Q&A What are the Differences Between Healing From Long and Short Term Affairs 8/03/2016 Expert Q and A Submission: Should we consider separating? 7/20/2016 Q&A (Preview) Should We Consider Separating? 7/13/2016 Michael & Melinda's Mentor Video 6/01/2016 Q&A What are the Statistics? 5/17/2016 Is My Mate Safe? 5/10/2016 Q&A How do I Celebrate Our Wedding Anniversary Now? 4/26/2016 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 4/13/2016 The Story that Started Affair Recovery 2/24/2016 A Protocol for Reminders 2/17/2016 Surviving Infidelity: How Do You Handle The Disclosure Process? 2/09/2016 Surviving Infidelity: Avoid These Common Mistakes 1/27/2016 Understanding Female Sexual Addiction: An Interview with a Survivor 12/09/2015 Affair Recovery Q & A: Answers from an Expert 11/17/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Have More Productive Conversations? 11/04/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Do We Get Through the Anniversary Date? 10/20/2015 Find Strength for Your Journey With the Survivors' Blog 10/12/2015 , Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? Interview with a Pioneer in the Field 9/30/2015 , Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? Interview with a Pioneer in the Field 9/30/2015 The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery 7/29/2015 Social Shame Survey 7/15/2015 Q&A Where is the Line Between Honesty and Pretend Normal? 6/02/2015 Q&A Is it Normal to still be Hurting? 5/29/2015 Q&A How do I get him to be more interested in recovery?” 5/29/2015 Q&A What kind of age-appropriate conversations should I be having with my kids about the truth of what their dad has done? 5/29/2015 Q&A How do we find the Truth between Two Different Perspectives of the Affair?” 5/29/2015 Q&A Do They Have Lingering Feelings for the Affair Partner? 4/28/2015 Q&A Does my Spouse Need Therapy or Divorce? 3/20/2015 Therapist Mistakes When Dealing with Infidelity 3/03/2015 Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers? 2/24/2015 Surviving Infidelity: Poor Recovery Decisions of Unfaithful Spouses - Part 2 10/23/2014 Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp 9/17/2014 I Only Have Eyes for You 8/19/2014 The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014 Official Rules of Drawings 10/30/2013 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 10/15/2013 Rekindling Desire After Infidelity 6/26/2013 Pages« first‹ previous123456next ›last »
