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Type	Title	Posted
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026
	Rebuilding What You Broke: Boundaries & Safety after Infidelity with Jim Ramos	8/24/2026

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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4629 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do I Heal from the Race of the Affair Partner Being a Trigger?	5/28/2025
	Q&A Is There Any Hope That My Husband Will Change?	5/28/2025
	The Brain’s Hidden Wound of Betrayal Trauma	5/28/2025
	Who I Should (and Shouldn't) Tell About the Affair	5/21/2025
	Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Such Hatred Towards His Affair Partner?	5/14/2025
	How Do I Know I Am Not “Plan B?”	5/14/2025
	Grappling with Disappointment from an Affair	5/07/2025
	Q&A What Are You Thoughts on Using Parental Control Apps to Create Safety and Rebuild Trust?	5/06/2025
	Q&A How Can She Support the ED That Came from Her Betrayal, Instead of Waiting for It to Fix Itself?	5/06/2025
	Q&A Do You Have Experience with BPD Affairs?	5/06/2025
	Do’s & Don’ts of Emotional Flooding	4/30/2025
	Q&A When Do I Throw in the Towel?	4/23/2025
	Q&A As the Betrayed, Is It Wise to Seek Closure with the Affair Partner?	4/23/2025
	Deciding to Stay: Practical Ways to Rebuild Safety	4/23/2025
	Q&A How Do We Move past This Set-Back in Our Recovery?	4/16/2025
	Q&A Why Do I Get Aroused Imagining the Sexual Acts My Wife Did with Her Affair Partner?	4/16/2025
	The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair	4/16/2025
	Q&A How Long Will It Take for Him to Get Over His Feelings Towards Her and the Fantasy of the Affair?	4/09/2025
	Q&A Do You Suggest He Focus On Healing Himself First, Then Our Marriage?	4/09/2025
	Q&A How Do We Restore the Relationship with Our Adult Children?	4/09/2025
	Q&A Is It Healthy for Me to Gather Evidence in Order to Move On from This?	4/09/2025
	Q&A Is There a Way to Reconnect or Get Him to Engage Before Throwing 35 Years Away?	4/09/2025
	Q&A When My Mate Accuses Me of Being a Narcissist Are They Really Recognizing Traits Within Themselves?	4/09/2025
	The Myth of Greener Grass in Marriage	4/09/2025
	Q&A When Will the Abusive Language and Name-Calling from the Betrayed Spouse Stop?	4/02/2025
	Q&A How Do I Know If My Spouse Really Shut the Door on the Affair Partner?	4/02/2025
	Q&A What Do I Look for to Know the Affair Isn’t Still Happening?	4/02/2025
	Q&A When Will My Efforts Be Enough for My Spouse?	4/02/2025
	Lies We Believe About Our Spouse	4/02/2025
	Q&A How Should I Respond When He Shares Lies with Me, Especially If I Perceive He Is Sugar-Coating the Truth?	4/01/2025
	Q&A How Do I Find a Way to Show Compassion or Empathy When I Find Myself Empty of It in the Moment?	4/01/2025
	Q&A Can You Shed Light on Pass/Fail Outcomes and Eye-Scan Polygraph Tests?	4/01/2025
	Q&A Can I Forgive My Husband for Abandonment?	4/01/2025
	Q&A How Can We Best Deal With This Hurtful Possibility and Begin to Heal from It?	4/01/2025
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Apologizing to the Affair Partner’s Spouse?	3/26/2025
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Journaling as a Betrayed Spouse?	3/26/2025
	Q&A How Could He Possibly Call What He Had with the Affair Partner ‘Love'?	3/26/2025
	Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key	3/26/2025
	Revenge: Responding to an Affair	3/19/2025
	Nine Signs of an Emotional Affair	3/12/2025
	Q&A Can You Give Me Insight on What Therapy Modalities Would Be Best for Me?	3/11/2025
	Q&A Do You Recommend We Continue Living Separately During Recovery?	3/11/2025
	Q&A Who Falls in True Love with an Affair Partner?	3/11/2025
	Wanting to Be Wanted	3/05/2025
	Am I Who They Want?	2/25/2025
	Q&A How Much of This Developmental Trauma Contributed to Me Having an Affair in Adulthood?	2/25/2025
	Q&A Why Can’t My Husband See the Affair Partner Through a Negative Lens?	2/25/2025
	Q&A Does It Matter Who Ended the Affair?	2/25/2025
	Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner?	2/19/2025
	Q&A Can the Wayward Spouse Really Have No Triggers?	2/18/2025