Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity We Started Well, but... Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse The Problem with Forgiveness Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? How to Survive Infidelity The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Recovery Timeline 239 Resources Type Title Posted How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 1/22/2020 How Could You? Part III: Moral Justification 1/15/2020 How Could You? Part II: The Thought Processes That Lead to Betrayal 1/07/2020 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 1/01/2020 How Do I Forget the Affair Partner? 12/11/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 3 12/04/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 2 11/26/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 11/20/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 11/06/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 10/30/2019 Trauma from Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist 10/23/2019 Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019 What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 10/09/2019 Anger: Its 6 Roots 10/02/2019 Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 9/25/2019 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Let Go of My Regrets? 9/18/2019 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 9/18/2019 Common Justifications for Why Women Cheat 9/11/2019 Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them 9/04/2019 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 8/28/2019 Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work. 8/21/2019 How to Find Answers 8/14/2019 Trauma and Infidelity 8/07/2019 Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 7/24/2019 Is There Hope After Infidelity? 7/17/2019 What is Healing? 7/03/2019 Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019 The Power of Small Groups 4/10/2019 Rekindling Desire After An Affair 4/04/2019 Grieving Betrayal 3/27/2019 How to Prevent Relapse: Healing After an Affair 3/20/2019 Understanding Codependency and Betrayal: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 3/13/2019 How Does the Betrayed Spouse Grieve Properly? 2/27/2019 Why People Cheat? Part 3: Justifications of the Unfaithful 2/20/2019 Why Do People Cheat? Part 2: Were They Predisposed to Cheat? 2/13/2019 Why Do People Cheat? Part 1: The Fog of Self Deception 2/06/2019 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1/30/2019 Forgiveness: How Does 70 Times 7 Work? 1/23/2019 A Betrayed Spouse Chimes In - How I Recovered After My Husband's Infidelity 1/16/2019 Healing After the Affair: Whether to get help? 1/09/2019 Romanticism: Don't Believe the Lie 11/07/2018 Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018 Pleasing Versus Loving 10/24/2018 How to survive an affair – How much should I share with my spouse? 10/17/2018 Wanting to Be Wanted 10/10/2018 What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 9/19/2018 Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On 9/12/2018 Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key 9/05/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Pages« first‹ previous12345next ›last »
