Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 303 Resources Type Title Posted How Can You Move Past Ambivalence After Infidelity? 7/19/2023 Stuck? Three Methods to Get Moving in Infidelity Recovery 7/12/2023 Denial and Recovery After an Affair 7/05/2023 Recovering From Infidelity Pain: Are They Lying About ‘Why’? 6/28/2023 Hope for Healing Excerpt: 'Is My Life Out of Control?' 6/21/2023 Discovery: Why Do I Want to Know? 6/14/2023 Discovery: Processing the Details of the Affair 6/07/2023 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain 5/31/2023 How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 5/24/2023 Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 5/17/2023 What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity? 5/10/2023 When to Save a Marriage After Infidelity 5/03/2023 Your Brain on Porn and Understanding the Sex Addict 4/26/2023 Why People Cheat: Were They Predisposed to Cheat (Part 2) 4/12/2023 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 4/05/2023 Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 3/29/2023 Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 3/22/2023 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 3/15/2023 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 3/08/2023 Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone 3/01/2023 How Could You? Part V - The Secrecy Factor 2/15/2023 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 2/08/2023 How Could You? Part VI - Dehumanization and Blame 2/02/2023 How Could You? Part III: Moral Justification 2/01/2023 How Could You? Part II: The Thought Processes That Lead to Betrayal 1/25/2023 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 1/18/2023 Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 1/11/2023 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023 Ever Wonder Why Men Cheat and Why Women Cheat? 12/14/2022 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/07/2022 Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022 Healing After the Affair: Whether or Not to Get Help 11/23/2022 The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022 Is Change Really Possible? 10/26/2022 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022 Anger: Its 6 Roots 9/28/2022 Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/07/2022 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 8/10/2022 Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 8/03/2022 What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022 How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence? 6/22/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022 Pages« first‹ previous1234567next ›last »
