Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less We Started Well, but... Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected The 2 Stages of Pain Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Recovery Timeline Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness 257 Resources Type Title Posted Hope Rising 2020 Announcement 8/11/2020 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy 8/05/2020 Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 7/29/2020 Practical Suggestions for Forgiveness 7/22/2020 Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 7/15/2020 Handling Disappointment After Infidelity 7/08/2020 Surviving Infidelity Part 2: What Didn’t Work For Unfaithful Spouses 6/24/2020 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 6/17/2020 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 6/10/2020 Is It Normal? 6/03/2020 Expert Q&A Preview: What Boundaries Can I Put in Place That Don’t Sound like Ultimatums? 5/28/2020 The True Definition of Love and Its Role In Surviving An Affair 5/20/2020 Make Four Months of Progress in Three Days 5/01/2020 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 4/22/2020 Revenge: Responding to an Affair 4/15/2020 Am I Who They Want? 4/08/2020 Were They Thinking of Me? 4/01/2020 Hope During the COVID-19 Crisis ...and our favorite memes 3/30/2020 The Fantasyland of an Affair 3/25/2020 Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 3/18/2020 Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 3/11/2020 Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 2 - Not Getting It 3/04/2020 Why Couples Fail After an Affair: Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 2/26/2020 Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone 2/12/2020 Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and Is It a Bad Thing If You Both Want to Stay in Your Marriage? 2/11/2020 How Could You? Part VI - Dehumanization and Blame 2/05/2020 How Could You? Part V - The Secrecy Factor 1/29/2020 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 1/22/2020 How Could You? Part III: Moral Justification 1/15/2020 How Could You? Part II: The Thought Processes That Lead to Betrayal 1/07/2020 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 1/01/2020 How Do I Forget the Affair Partner? 12/11/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 3 12/04/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 2 11/26/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 11/20/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 11/06/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 10/30/2019 Trauma from Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist 10/23/2019 Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019 What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 10/09/2019 Anger: Its 6 Roots 10/02/2019 Why Did They Choose the Affair Partner? 9/25/2019 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Let Go of My Regrets? 9/18/2019 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 9/18/2019 Common Justifications for Why Women Cheat 9/11/2019 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 8/28/2019 Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work. 8/21/2019 How to Find Answers 8/14/2019 Trauma and Infidelity 8/07/2019 Pages« first‹ previous123456next ›last »
