Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Problem with Forgiveness 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Power of Small Groups The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it How to Survive Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? 295 Resources Type Title Posted Affair Recovery Steps: How to Live Without Fear After Infidelity 5/17/2023 What Is the Cost of Forgiving Infidelity? 5/10/2023 When to Save a Marriage After Infidelity 5/03/2023 Your Brain on Porn and Understanding the Sex Addict 4/26/2023 Why People Cheat: Were They Predisposed to Cheat (Part 2) 4/12/2023 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 4/05/2023 Discovery: Part 4 - Goals for the Betrayed 3/29/2023 Discovery: Part 3 - Guidelines for Discovery 3/22/2023 Discovery: Part 2 - Advice For The Wayward Spouse 3/15/2023 Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 3/08/2023 Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone 3/01/2023 How Could You? Part V - The Secrecy Factor 2/15/2023 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 2/08/2023 How Could You? Part VI - Dehumanization and Blame 2/02/2023 How Could You? Part III: Moral Justification 2/01/2023 How Could You? Part II: The Thought Processes That Lead to Betrayal 1/25/2023 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 1/18/2023 Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 1/11/2023 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 1/04/2023 Ever Wonder Why Men Cheat and Why Women Cheat? 12/14/2022 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/07/2022 Pleasing Versus Loving 11/29/2022 Healing After the Affair: Whether or Not to Get Help 11/23/2022 The Mystery of Change 11/02/2022 Is Change Really Possible? 10/26/2022 The Proper Use of Boundaries - Creating Space for Healing and Change 10/05/2022 Anger: Its 6 Roots 9/28/2022 Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation 9/07/2022 Intrusive Thoughts After the Affair: How to Manage Flooding 8/17/2022 Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 8/10/2022 Life After Divorce: How the Unfaithful Sees It 8/03/2022 What It Takes To Survive an Affair: 3 Must Have Components 7/13/2022 Forgiveness: A Letter to My Younger Self 7/06/2022 How Does My Spouse Escape the Neurochemical Process of Limerence? 6/22/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 4 - Not Grieving the Loss 6/15/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 3 - Hiding in Denial 6/08/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 2 - Not Getting It 6/01/2022 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 5/25/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part III: Individual Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? Part II: Marital Vulnerability 5/18/2022 Are You Vulnerable to an Affair? 5/18/2022 Limerence: Infatuation and How It Works 4/27/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Love Addiction 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Emotional Affair 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Wanting the Marriage and the Affair 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Sexual Addiction 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: Fallen in Love 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs: One-Night Stand 4/06/2022 Six Types of Affairs 4/06/2022 What Is A Forgiveness Letter? 3/16/2022 Pages« first‹ previous123456next ›last »
