Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less How to Survive Infidelity The 2 Stages of Pain Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness How do you respond to blackmail? Part II Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Recovery Timeline How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity We Started Well, but... 260 Resources Type Title Posted Expert Q&A Preview: How Do We Deal with Anger and Rage? 12/17/2020 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 12/16/2020 The Betrayed's Reaction: An Excerpt from Harboring Hope 12/08/2020 The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020 Sharing Perspectives: How Can My Spouse Feel What I Feel? 11/25/2020 Tweeting Or Cheating? Social Media Affairs And What To Do 11/18/2020 Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 11/11/2020 Did You Marry the Wrong Person? 11/04/2020 Your Brain on Porn and Understanding the Sex Addict 10/28/2020 The Mystery of Change 10/21/2020 Is Change Really Possible? 10/14/2020 Relapse: Why Can't You Stop? 10/07/2020 What are the 5 simple and proven steps that will protect your marriage? 9/30/2020 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Unfaithful 9/23/2020 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Betrayed 9/16/2020 Why is Trusting Again So Hard? 8/19/2020 Hope Rising 2020 Announcement 8/11/2020 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy 8/05/2020 Hope For Healing Excerpt: How Does The Unfaithful Make Amends? 7/29/2020 Practical Suggestions for Forgiveness 7/22/2020 Forgiving Infidelity: The Gift of Forgiveness 7/15/2020 Handling Disappointment After Infidelity 7/08/2020 Surviving Infidelity Part 2: What Didn’t Work For Unfaithful Spouses 6/24/2020 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 6/17/2020 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 6/10/2020 Is It Normal? 6/03/2020 Expert Q&A Preview: What Boundaries Can I Put in Place That Don’t Sound like Ultimatums? 5/28/2020 Make Four Months of Progress in Three Days 5/01/2020 Revenge: Responding to an Affair 4/15/2020 Am I Who They Want? 4/08/2020 Were They Thinking of Me? 4/01/2020 Hope During the COVID-19 Crisis ...and our favorite memes 3/30/2020 Healing from Infidelity: Going it alone 2/12/2020 Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and Is It a Bad Thing If You Both Want to Stay in Your Marriage? 2/11/2020 How Could You? Part VI - Dehumanization and Blame 2/05/2020 How Could You? Part V - The Secrecy Factor 1/29/2020 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 1/22/2020 How Could You? Part III: Moral Justification 1/15/2020 How Could You? Part II: The Thought Processes That Lead to Betrayal 1/07/2020 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 1/01/2020 How Do I Forget the Affair Partner? 12/11/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 3 12/04/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 2 11/26/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 11/20/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 11/06/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 10/30/2019 Trauma from Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist 10/23/2019 Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Let Go of My Regrets? 9/18/2019 Pages« first‹ previous123456next ›last »
