Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse The Power of Small Groups Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 292 Resources Type Title Posted Understanding Female Sexual Addiction: An Interview with a Survivor 12/09/2015 Affair Recovery Q & A: Answers from an Expert 11/17/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Have More Productive Conversations? 11/04/2015 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can We Stay Out of Our Old Ruts? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Do We Get Through the Anniversary Date? 10/20/2015 Find Strength for Your Journey With the Survivors' Blog 10/12/2015 , Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? Interview with a Pioneer in the Field 9/30/2015 , Is a Marriage Retreat Worth It? Interview with a Pioneer in the Field 9/30/2015 The Ashley Madison Hack - Surviving Discovery 7/29/2015 Social Shame Survey 7/15/2015 Q&A Where is the Line Between Honesty and Pretend Normal? 6/02/2015 Q&A Is it Normal to still be Hurting? 5/29/2015 Q&A How do I get him to be more interested in recovery?” 5/29/2015 Q&A What kind of age-appropriate conversations should I be having with my kids about the truth of what their dad has done? 5/29/2015 Q&A How do we find the Truth between Two Different Perspectives of the Affair?” 5/29/2015 Q&A Do They Have Lingering Feelings for the Affair Partner? 4/28/2015 Q&A Does my Spouse Need Therapy or Divorce? 3/20/2015 Therapist Mistakes When Dealing with Infidelity 3/03/2015 Q&A What is Each Spouse's Role in Handling Triggers? 2/24/2015 What Are Some Practical Steps to Take to Forgive My Spouse? 2/04/2015 How To Survive an Affair: How Much Should I Share with My Spouse? 1/29/2015 Is My Mate Truly Committed to Recovery? 1/22/2015 Surviving Infidelity: Poor Recovery Decisions of Unfaithful Spouses - Part 2 10/23/2014 Using the Time Well: Try the First Steps Bootcamp 9/17/2014 I Only Have Eyes for You 8/19/2014 The Seduction of Blame 5/21/2014 Official Rules of Drawings 10/30/2013 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse 10/15/2013 What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013 Rekindling Desire After Infidelity 6/26/2013 Interview of EMS Online Participants 7/01/2012 6 Steps To Confronting Your Mate About Betrayal 4/03/2012 Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 7/27/2011 How Many Marriages does Ashley Madison Save? 3/03/2011 Q&A How Do Men Compartmentalize? 8/23/2010 Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 3/26/2010 Disclosing the Affair: Do I Tell or Not? 2/24/2010 The Shocking Truth About Trust 1/26/2010 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 8/21/2009 Grace in Recovery 3/09/2008 Anger Management 12/30/2007 Surviving the Holidays: An Interview with Dr. Karen Royer 12/16/2007 Pages« first‹ previous123456