Question

Could you please explain how men could make love to their wives and still be unfaithful? I've heard about compartmentalization but it still confuses me how feelings could just be turned off and on. If you don't mind me asking, when you were active in your addiction, how was it you were able to face your wife and not think about what you were doing? I've heard you share your story the night that God confronted you about your problem. How were you able to be around both of them, your wife and your affair partner, and not join your two worlds?