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Type Title Posted
Video Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Betrayed 9/16/2020
Text Hope Rising 2020 Announcement 8/11/2020
Text Practical Suggestions for Forgiveness 7/22/2020
Video Surviving Infidelity Part 2: What Didn’t Work For Unfaithful Spouses 6/24/2020
Text Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 6/17/2020
Video Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 6/10/2020
Text Is It Normal? 6/03/2020
Video Expert Q&A Preview: What Boundaries Can I Put in Place That Don’t Sound like Ultimatums? 5/28/2020
Video Hope During the COVID-19 Crisis ...and our favorite memes 3/30/2020
Video Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and Is It a Bad Thing If You Both Want to Stay in Your Marriage? 2/11/2020
Video How Do I Forget the Affair Partner? 12/11/2019
Text 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 3 12/04/2019
Text 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 2 11/26/2019
Text 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 11/20/2019
Text Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019
Text Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 11/06/2019
Text Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 10/30/2019
Text Trauma from Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist 10/23/2019
Text Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019
Video Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Let Go of My Regrets? 9/18/2019
Text Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work. 8/21/2019
Text How to Find Answers 8/14/2019
Text Trauma and Infidelity 8/07/2019
Text Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019
Text Becoming a Group Leader: 6/05/2019
Text The Power of Small Groups 4/10/2019
Audio Rekindling Desire After An Affair 4/04/2019
Text The Problem with Forgiveness 3/06/2019
Text How Does the Betrayed Spouse Grieve Properly? 2/27/2019
Text Why People Cheat: Justifications of the Unfaithful (Part 3) 2/20/2019
Video Rodney and Angela Mentor Video 2/14/2019
Text Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1/30/2019
Text A Betrayed Spouse Chimes In - How I Recovered After My Husband's Infidelity 1/16/2019
Video Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018
Text Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On 9/12/2018
Text Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key 9/05/2018
Text Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018
Text Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 8/23/2018
Text Ending an Affair: Close the Door 8/15/2018
Text Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 8/08/2018
Text Is it Love or Infatuation? 7/25/2018
Video Mickey and Stephanie's Mentor Video 7/06/2018
Text Monotonous Monogamy and the Emotional Affair 6/27/2018
Text The Infidelity Divorce Syndrome: Divorce Recovery After Infidelity 6/21/2018
Video Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018
Text Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles - Part 2 5/22/2018
Text Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles 5/16/2018
Video Expert Q&A Preview: Did My Mate Mean It When He Said 'I Love You' to His Affair Partner? 4/11/2018
Text Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018
Text How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018