Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Rebuilding Trust After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) We Started Well, but... How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Recovery Timeline Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected The 2 Stages of Pain Why Did My Spouse Cheat? Q&A How Can I Begin to Heal Our Relationship? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 The Myth of the Greener Grass: Where Are You Investing? The Problem with Forgiveness How do you respond to blackmail? Part II 257 Resources Type Title Posted Lies We Believe About Our Spouse 7/24/2019 What is Healing? 7/03/2019 Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019 Becoming a Group Leader: 6/05/2019 The Power of Small Groups 4/10/2019 Rekindling Desire After An Affair 4/04/2019 The Problem with Forgiveness 3/06/2019 How Does the Betrayed Spouse Grieve Properly? 2/27/2019 Why People Cheat? Part 3: Justifications of the Unfaithful 2/20/2019 Rodney and Angela Mentor Video 2/14/2019 Why Do People Cheat? Part 2: Were They Predisposed to Cheat? 2/13/2019 Why Do People Cheat? Part 1: The Fog of Self Deception 2/06/2019 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1/30/2019 A Betrayed Spouse Chimes In - How I Recovered After My Husband's Infidelity 1/16/2019 Healing After the Affair: Whether to get help? 1/09/2019 Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018 Pleasing Versus Loving 10/24/2018 How to survive an affair – How much should I share with my spouse? 10/17/2018 Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On 9/12/2018 Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key 9/05/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 8/23/2018 Ending an Affair: Close the Door 8/15/2018 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 8/08/2018 Is it Love or Infatuation? 7/25/2018 Mickey and Stephanie's Mentor Video 7/06/2018 Monotonous Monogamy and the Emotional Affair 6/27/2018 The Infidelity Divorce Syndrome: Divorce Recovery After Infidelity 6/21/2018 Looking for Safety: Harboring Hope 6/12/2018 Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles - Part 2 5/22/2018 Surviving Infidelity: When Hope Crumbles 5/16/2018 Expert Q&A Preview: Did My Mate Mean It When He Said 'I Love You' to His Affair Partner? 4/11/2018 Communication Killers: How to Remedy Stonewalling 2/28/2018 How to Not Make Things Worse: Stonewalling 2/21/2018 Practical Tools for Betrayed Spouses 2/14/2018 Forgiving Infidelity: What Forgiveness Is NOT 1/18/2018 Understanding Grief in Infidelity 10/24/2017 Do You Struggle with Forgiveness? 10/17/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: Will Mate Ever Understand What They Have Done? 10/05/2017 Relapse Prevention & How to Recover from an Affair 9/20/2017 What Really Happens at EMS Weekend? 9/14/2017 Meet Rodney and Angela: A Journey Through EMS Online 8/30/2017 Q&A Can You Suggest Some Exercises to Help with Honesty after Betrayal? 8/11/2017 Everyone Thought I was Crazy for Staying: Amanda and Kenneth’s Story 7/19/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and What Does It Mean for a Relationship in Recovery? 6/28/2017 What if my Spouse Doesn’t Remember All the Details? Q&A Video Excerpt from Recovery Library 5/24/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can I Give My Wife Hope after Betraying Her So Deeply? 5/03/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Can My Husband Overcome His Ambivalence? 3/29/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: Am I Looking at Forgiveness Wrong? 2/28/2017 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Handle the Abrupt Emotional Changes? 2/15/2017 Pages« first‹ previous123456next ›last »