Free Resources These full articles will give you an example of what to expect from the full version of the Recovery Library. The rest of the categories on the left contain small previews of resources from the full Recovery Library. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted The Problem with Forgiveness Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision The Power of Small Groups Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity 285 Resources Type Title Posted Mastering Marriage Part 2: Practicing the Process of Marriage and Recovery 8/25/2021 Mastering Marriage Part 1: Interpreting Plateaus in Marriage and Recovery 8/18/2021 Mental Health and Parenting: How to Support Yourself and Your Kids 6/02/2021 How Couples Can Promote Good Mental Health During and After the COVID-19 Pandemic 5/26/2021 Hope Rising Conference 2021 Announcement: Words of Wisdom from Keynote Speaker Shauna Shanks 5/19/2021 Travel Plan: How to Create One and Why They're Worthwhile 3/31/2021 A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do We Deal with Anger and Rage? 12/17/2020 The Anorexic Marriage: A Void of Intimacy 12/02/2020 Tweeting Or Cheating? Social Media Affairs And What To Do 11/18/2020 Searching for Truth: Snooping Won’t Help 11/11/2020 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Unfaithful 9/23/2020 Recovering from Infidelity: Difficulties with Intimacy for the Betrayed 9/16/2020 Hope Rising 2020 Announcement 8/11/2020 Practical Suggestions for Forgiveness 7/22/2020 Surviving Infidelity Part 2: What Didn’t Work For Unfaithful Spouses 6/24/2020 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 6/17/2020 Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair 6/10/2020 Is It Normal? 6/03/2020 Expert Q&A Preview: What Boundaries Can I Put in Place That Don’t Sound like Ultimatums? 5/28/2020 Hope During the COVID-19 Crisis ...and our favorite memes 3/30/2020 Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and Is It a Bad Thing If You Both Want to Stay in Your Marriage? 2/11/2020 How Do I Forget the Affair Partner? 12/11/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 3 12/04/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 2 11/26/2019 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 11/20/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 3: Stupid Apologies 11/13/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 2: 7 Myths Undermining Forgiveness 11/06/2019 Are You Forgivable? Part 1: Self Assessment 10/30/2019 Trauma from Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist 10/23/2019 Social Shame Survey Results: What We Learned from Ashley Madison 10/16/2019 Expert Q&A Preview: How Do I Let Go of My Regrets? 9/18/2019 Healing After Infidelity: What Doesn't Work. 8/21/2019 Trauma and Infidelity 8/07/2019 Expectations of Empathy: A Betrayed Spouse’s Journey 6/26/2019 Becoming a Group Leader: 6/05/2019 The Power of Small Groups 4/10/2019 The Problem with Forgiveness 3/06/2019 Why People Cheat: Justifications of the Unfaithful (Part 3) 2/20/2019 Rodney and Angela Mentor Video 2/14/2019 Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity 1/30/2019 A Betrayed Spouse Chimes In - How I Recovered After My Husband's Infidelity 1/16/2019 Hope Rising 2018: Apology from the Unfaithful 10/31/2018 Ending an Affair: Letting Go and Moving On 9/12/2018 Ending An Affair: Throw Away the Key 9/05/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 2 8/29/2018 Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 8/23/2018 Ending an Affair: Close the Door 8/15/2018 Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 8/08/2018 Is it Love or Infatuation? 7/25/2018 Pages« first‹ previous123456next ›last »