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Type	Title	Posted
	Infidelity + Life: When the Affair Isn’t Your Only Crisis	9/28/2026
	Reclaiming Your Power Through Intervention	9/16/2026
	How to Forgive When You Can't Forget	9/14/2026
	His Addiction, Her Affair: Healing When Both Are Betrayed	8/31/2026
	Rebuilding What You Broke: Boundaries & Safety after Infidelity with Jim Ramos	8/24/2026

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	Q&A Is Looking at Porn as Damaging as Having an Affair?	9/29/2026
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Celebrating Our Anniversary During Recovery?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do We Respond to Intrusive Thoughts Without Reinforcing Them?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Do I Respond to Old Urges & Pathways Without Becoming Overly Vigilant?	9/29/2026
	Q&A How Can I Support My Betrayed Spouse?	9/29/2026

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4629 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Could He So Easily Forget the Pain He Caused?	10/02/2025
	Q&A What Advice Would You Give to a Couple Who Feels Safe Now and for the Future, but Is Struggling with ‘Getting Right’ with past Infidelities and Traumas?	10/02/2025
	Q&A Is There Anything the Wayward Spouse Can Say or Do That Has Been Effective in Helping the Betrayed Spouse Feel Better?	10/02/2025
	Overcoming the Barriers to Recommitment	10/01/2025
	How Do You Deal With Anger After Infidelity?	9/24/2025
	Surviving Infidelity: Three Types of Reconciliation	9/17/2025
	Q&A How Do I Move Forward from Here?	9/10/2025
	Q&A Why Should I Continue in This Relationship?	9/10/2025
	Why Couples Fail After an Affair \| Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened	9/03/2025
	Q&A How Will I Ever Feel Safe with Someone Who Has No Control over Themselves?	8/28/2025
	Q&A Does the Wayward Spouse Need Time to Mourn the Loss of the Affair Partner?	8/28/2025
	Q&A How Do I Heal from What Happened?	8/28/2025
	Q&A Could You Provide Suggestion on How to Predict & Repair Intrusive Thoughts When We Are Engaging in Sex?	8/28/2025
	Are Silence, Avoidance and Frustration Killing Your Recovery?	8/27/2025
	Q&A What Makes Someone Vulnerable to a Previous Romantic Partner?	8/21/2025
	Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal	8/20/2025
	Embracing Intimacy After Infidelity Part 1: How to Reengage	8/13/2025
	Q&A How Do We Address and Heal from My Husband’s past Betrayal in Light of My Recent Infidelity?	8/06/2025
	Q&A How Can I Prove to My Betrayed Spouse That I Finally ‘Get It’?	8/06/2025
	Q&A How Can the Unfaithful Spouse Love Me and Have an Affair Partner?	8/06/2025
	Q&A Am I Asking Too Much in Regards to Relapse Prevention from My Husband?	8/06/2025
	Q&A Would You Ever Consider Hosting a ‘Trauma Therapy Specific’ Weekend Intensive?	8/06/2025
	Rewriting the Story You Tell	7/30/2025
	Q&A How Is Proper Closure with the Affair Partner Done in This Situation?	7/23/2025
	Q&A How Do Others Cope with No Answers or Resolutions?	7/23/2025
	Q&A After a Polygraph Is Done to Confirm the Couple Is at Ground Zero, What Should Each Partner Expect from the Other Going Forward?	7/23/2025
	Q&A How Do You Recommend We Handle Interactions with the Affair Partner?	7/23/2025
	Q&A How Does He Not Have Deep Residual Feelings for the Affair Partner?	7/23/2025
	Q&A How Do We Dismantle the Wall Hindering My Wayward Spouse from Expressing Sorrow, Remorse, and Empathy?	7/23/2025
	When Should You Stop Talking About the Affair?	7/23/2025
	Q&A I Want My Mate to Apologize. Is It Okay to Tell Him the Things He Has Done That Have Hurt Me?	7/21/2025
	Q&A Are My Requests for Relapse Prevention Measures Unreasonable?	7/21/2025
	Q&A How Do I Protect My Own Boundaries While Navigating This Complex Relationship?	7/09/2025
	Moving from Self-Hatred to Self-Compassion	7/09/2025
	Q&A Can You Please Give Some Direction on the Various Courses and the Best Way to Go Through Them?	7/02/2025
	Q&A What Would Put Me Back Into Integrity as a Betrayed Spouse?	7/02/2025
	Q&A Why Is My Husband Blaming Me for His Affair?	7/02/2025
	Q&A How Do I Talk About My Stupidity in a Redemptive Way, While I’m Still Struggling Through My Heart Change?	7/02/2025
	Will I Ever Feel Chosen?	7/02/2025
	Forgiving Yourself: A Healing Necessity for Both Spouses	6/25/2025
	Q&A Am I Wrong for Wanting My Husband to Completely Separate from Anyone Complicit in His Affair?	6/18/2025
	Q&A How Can I Forgive the Affair Partner When She Is Still Impacting My Life So Negatively?	6/18/2025
	Q&A How Do I Respond If I Feel the Wayward Spouse Doesn’t Want to Be with Me?	6/18/2025
	Movies & Infidelity: Why Hollywood Seems Obsessed with Sex & Secrets	6/18/2025
	Q&A How Can I Get Past This Feeling of Never Being Her Choice When She Had Freedom to Choose?	6/12/2025
	Q&A Do I Take Action Against the Affair Partner or Just Letting It Go?	6/12/2025
	The Crucial Role of Disclosure in Healing (Survey)	6/11/2025
	The Number One Question and How to Answer It	6/04/2025
	Q&A How Do I Stop Hating the Affair Partner?	5/28/2025
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Healing or Blending Two Different Attachment Styles?	5/28/2025