Expert Q&A Preview: What Is Hysterical Bonding and Is It a Bad Thing If You Both Want to Stay in Your Marriage?

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My husband cheated on me, and since I found out several months ago we’ve been making love almost every day. I feel it makes us both feel better by releasing some tension between us, and I never regret it. My only fear is that it makes my husband think I’m in a better place than I really am and he may think I should be farther along in recovery since we are having sex and I feel OK enough to do that. Am I sending mixed signals? Before the affair, we were having sex once a week.



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