Six Types of Affairs: One-Night Stand 6 Types of Affairs: Introduction Category 1: One-Night Stand Category 2: Fallen in Love Category 3: Sexual Addiction Category 4: Wanting the Marriage and the Affair Category 5: Emotional Affair Category 6: Love Addiction Category 1: One-Night Stand This type of affair may well be a one-time betrayal. The typical one-night stand usually occurs when a spouse is away from home, possibly on a business or pleasure trip (not to be confused with a string of one-night stands that occur as a sex addict pursues his or her addictive drive), and occurs as a result of the opportunities afforded in that moment. Often this occurs as a result of poor boundaries, drinking, and anonymity. This type of affair is not necessarily an indication of problems in the marriage or that the betrayer is dissatisfied with his or her mate. In fact, one of the distinguishing points in this type of affair is the betrayer's desire to stay married. The core of this betrayal is based on a high-risk situation, poor boundaries, and the opportunity to act. Frequently, there is no emotional involvement, and often this type of affair occurs with a perfect stranger who is befriended or a work acquaintance. Internal risk factors such as loneliness, fatigue, anger, or hunger, may contribute to susceptibility. Frequently pride deceives this person into believing nothing will happen, which allows them to justify being in a high-risk situation. Normally, individuals who have had one-night stands tell themselves that they will go to the grave with their secret because they don't want to hurt their mate and they don't wasn't to lose their marriage. Characteristics: It is an affair of convenience or opportunity. It is not something that is sought out, but rather occurs as the result of an opportunity that is presented. The majority of the time the betrayer does not want to leave the marriage. There is not an ongoing relationship. RL_Category: Handling DiscoveryTypes of AffairsRL_Media Type: Text