I am sorry to hear about your struggles. I would suggest balancing this struggle with grace on yourself. I truly believe the Bible put adultery as the one out of a marriage vow in script because we simply were not designed to endure the pain from this type of betrayal. All we can do is the best we can do, when we regret learn from it, but don't let it define us. Just like my wife could not control my reactions and anger, I did not choose the destructive behavior of her betrayals and lies. My prayer for you in this moment is that this process is revealing a path for individual growth and healing - for me I truly have found that is the golden opportunity in all of this pain. There were so many things about myself I was dissatisfied with before I ever experienced adultery. This has been my chance to truly slow down and evaluate me - to take a real hard look in the mirror independent of my marriage. The individual growth from that process has been rewarding.
I am sorry to hear about your
I am sorry to hear about your struggles. I would suggest balancing this struggle with grace on yourself. I truly believe the Bible put adultery as the one out of a marriage vow in script because we simply were not designed to endure the pain from this type of betrayal. All we can do is the best we can do, when we regret learn from it, but don't let it define us. Just like my wife could not control my reactions and anger, I did not choose the destructive behavior of her betrayals and lies. My prayer for you in this moment is that this process is revealing a path for individual growth and healing - for me I truly have found that is the golden opportunity in all of this pain. There were so many things about myself I was dissatisfied with before I ever experienced adultery. This has been my chance to truly slow down and evaluate me - to take a real hard look in the mirror independent of my marriage. The individual growth from that process has been rewarding.
Chase