I wish too

I too wish you could talk to her. Today marks 619 days since D day 1. Just a few days ago we had a heated argument and again I asked her to please find an IC to start the recovery process. I started with a new IC 4 weeks ago. I received the same response that there is never enough time. She’s too busy. Too busy to save our relationship, marriage and family. At what point does one give up and move on? You said it takes a long time to get rid of the shame. What would have got your attention and made you realize it’s time to get help? I fear I’m reaching the point of no return.