Divorce is painful

Great article. I hope that those who still have a fighting chance to save their marriage fight as hard as they can and exhaust all their options.
Unfortunately, my marriage did not survive. My husband had an affair with a co-worker ten years his junior. I was willing to work on it but he was not. I moved back home which was 3 hours away before I discovered the affair as I thought my husband was mentally ill as he was acting odd. He wasn't coming home at night. He told me he was staying at hotels for $20 a night. I would catch him in our basement shaking with his backpack packed.