I feel exactly the same, divorce certainly was not in my equation but after finding out of my unfaithful spouses 15 year betrayal after being married for 50 years, knew there was no undoing what he had done, trust is broken and it takes a lifetime to regain if ever, he even dares to say I want to throw our marriage away, so this article I particularly find offensive as well, I had gained much perspective from previous articles, but realize I need to unsubscribe to find healing for myself, even God's word tells us that for adultery we can divorce, as our creator knows the pain that is inflicted when an unsuspecting partner is betrayed, they broke the covenant with you and God, and we are left to mend it. Wayne and Sam's marriages didn't survive even after years of counselling others, how can they possibly lead others through this life altering trauma
Betrayal trauma
I feel exactly the same, divorce certainly was not in my equation but after finding out of my unfaithful spouses 15 year betrayal after being married for 50 years, knew there was no undoing what he had done, trust is broken and it takes a lifetime to regain if ever, he even dares to say I want to throw our marriage away, so this article I particularly find offensive as well, I had gained much perspective from previous articles, but realize I need to unsubscribe to find healing for myself, even God's word tells us that for adultery we can divorce, as our creator knows the pain that is inflicted when an unsuspecting partner is betrayed, they broke the covenant with you and God, and we are left to mend it. Wayne and Sam's marriages didn't survive even after years of counselling others, how can they possibly lead others through this life altering trauma