you likely have already done so but educate yourself on how men are affected differently by an affair ,i can assure he not only has to suppress the feelings of wanting to hurt your AP buy also feeling that a wife he was proud of is now a cause for shame. As unfair as it my be wives who have been cheated on get sympathy ,husbands who get cheated on are the brunt of jokes
trying to move on
you likely have already done so but educate yourself on how men are affected differently by an affair ,i can assure he not only has to suppress the feelings of wanting to hurt your AP buy also feeling that a wife he was proud of is now a cause for shame. As unfair as it my be wives who have been cheated on get sympathy ,husbands who get cheated on are the brunt of jokes