My wife knew full well the consequences of her third affair. I only knew about the second one when I found out about the third. These were over 25 years with the same man during our 32 year marriage. We seem to be doing well with recovery however I still have so many extra "why" questions now. Honestly she had two affairs during her first marriage. She seems to truly want me and our marriage however there are still unexplained "details" and she continued to trickle out information for months after D-day. I do love her and want to get our marriage where it should be but now I really fear something is seriously wrong with her personality. Do you have any suggestions that can help me?
What about having to go into revovery for the second time?
My wife knew full well the consequences of her third affair. I only knew about the second one when I found out about the third. These were over 25 years with the same man during our 32 year marriage. We seem to be doing well with recovery however I still have so many extra "why" questions now. Honestly she had two affairs during her first marriage. She seems to truly want me and our marriage however there are still unexplained "details" and she continued to trickle out information for months after D-day. I do love her and want to get our marriage where it should be but now I really fear something is seriously wrong with her personality. Do you have any suggestions that can help me?