Thank you Elizabeth. I read your words and realize my unfaithful spouse has said many of the same things. You give us insight into the many ways the unfaithful also feel pain. For many months, I assumed my spouse felt no pain only disgust at being caught. With time I am beginning to realize that his pain is different but quite real. With counseling I am realizing I need to make a safer environment for him to talk and with prayer I am slowing realizing that the other woman is just a broken lonely soul with issues.
I plan to borrow your letter if ok and share it with my spouse.
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Thank you Elizabeth. I read your words and realize my unfaithful spouse has said many of the same things. You give us insight into the many ways the unfaithful also feel pain. For many months, I assumed my spouse felt no pain only disgust at being caught. With time I am beginning to realize that his pain is different but quite real. With counseling I am realizing I need to make a safer environment for him to talk and with prayer I am slowing realizing that the other woman is just a broken lonely soul with issues.
I plan to borrow your letter if ok and share it with my spouse.