Our recovery has taken me almost 3 years to move past. I still to this day have triggers and get myself upset but they are not nearly as bad as they used to be. My husband & I have been actively going to therapy as well and that seems to help the communication going strong. My husband and I both had an affair so our situation is double crazy. I still am angry with myself and it takes all I have to forgive us both. I know this marriage was meant to be, as we would not be here to this minute. I love your articles and look forward to them each Thursday. It truly helps me realize that I am not out of the norm. It's truly not just something you can "get over quickly" Thanks for everything.
Almost 3 years
Our recovery has taken me almost 3 years to move past. I still to this day have triggers and get myself upset but they are not nearly as bad as they used to be. My husband & I have been actively going to therapy as well and that seems to help the communication going strong. My husband and I both had an affair so our situation is double crazy. I still am angry with myself and it takes all I have to forgive us both. I know this marriage was meant to be, as we would not be here to this minute. I love your articles and look forward to them each Thursday. It truly helps me realize that I am not out of the norm. It's truly not just something you can "get over quickly" Thanks for everything.