It’s been almost 5 years since D-day and I know to well the feeling of being stuck. We did marriage counseling right after discovery and continued for 4 years. I’m not saying it didn’t help but to this day I still question my decision on staying. My immediate thought was I was leaving and our counselor ask me to hold off on that decision for 6 months. I did and I choose to stay but I continue to question that choice. I’ve heard and read the many testimonies of how your marriage can actually be better. I’m not 100% sure about that? My marriage is different in many ways. My spouse has mentioned that I don’t do the things I use to do. I never really thought about it but she’s right. I don’t do a lot of the small things that I use to do and enjoyed doing them. I think being stuck is a position that a lot of betrayed spouses end up in.
Being Stuck.....
It’s been almost 5 years since D-day and I know to well the feeling of being stuck. We did marriage counseling right after discovery and continued for 4 years. I’m not saying it didn’t help but to this day I still question my decision on staying. My immediate thought was I was leaving and our counselor ask me to hold off on that decision for 6 months. I did and I choose to stay but I continue to question that choice. I’ve heard and read the many testimonies of how your marriage can actually be better. I’m not 100% sure about that? My marriage is different in many ways. My spouse has mentioned that I don’t do the things I use to do. I never really thought about it but she’s right. I don’t do a lot of the small things that I use to do and enjoyed doing them. I think being stuck is a position that a lot of betrayed spouses end up in.