As the unfaithful spouse I am trying to learn, and grow, and empathize, and "understand", and frankly just do things right. I am told by so many people/sponsors/counselors/pastors/friends not to tell this, not to say that, "that's just too much information", or, "that will just be damaging to her".
But my wife is standing on the other side pleading for more information, and oddly enough, she usually seems to do better after she gets answers rather than living in the dark with outstanding questions.
A Good Hard Truth
As the unfaithful spouse I am trying to learn, and grow, and empathize, and "understand", and frankly just do things right. I am told by so many people/sponsors/counselors/pastors/friends not to tell this, not to say that, "that's just too much information", or, "that will just be damaging to her".
But my wife is standing on the other side pleading for more information, and oddly enough, she usually seems to do better after she gets answers rather than living in the dark with outstanding questions.
Rick, thank you for the comments.