Me too.

I too needed the truth and ALL OF THE TRUTH. He was not capable/able etc. to do that or give any reason why he couldn't. After giving him ample opportunity (4-1/2 yrs) I realized he had no intentions of being honest or caring about what he had done or what he could do to improve the situation, he just wanted to move on together and live as he wished without any regard for how I wanted to live my life.