dealing with reminders

another wonderful article. It is very timely. We are 2 1/2 years out and we are stronger than ever before the affair.  My husband and I did the works to heal our marriage from the painful wounds of infidelity,   But i still have reminders of the affairs, i don't feel the pain but really want to just have a day without any thoughts or reminders and your article has helped me what to do with reminders-  to focus on the  pure, noble and good things what is happening now, what my husband and I have right now. Very true and very helpful. I am learning a lot from this website. The writers, their stories just made me cry everytime I read their blogs their stories are so encouraging and inspiring. They have been a blessing to me. My husband is remorseful and helped me restored my trust. I want to thank you again and again for all your work in giving hopes and insights to us betrayed.

God Bless,

M...