How about “I thought I was doing you a favor because you didn’t seem happy in our relationship”. It has been almost three years since the D day and it still boggles my mind how a decent and honest man could set himself in this trap, using all cognitive distortions on the book, to fall for this airhead. We are working things out and it gets better. She is still “fishing”, hoping that our marriage was as bad as he described it during the height of their emotional affair. Maybe it would be a good idea to address the issue how to deal with an ex AP who is stalking your partner using all available means.
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How about “I thought I was doing you a favor because you didn’t seem happy in our relationship”. It has been almost three years since the D day and it still boggles my mind how a decent and honest man could set himself in this trap, using all cognitive distortions on the book, to fall for this airhead. We are working things out and it gets better. She is still “fishing”, hoping that our marriage was as bad as he described it during the height of their emotional affair. Maybe it would be a good idea to address the issue how to deal with an ex AP who is stalking your partner using all available means.