All this is similar to my situation, but I am super thankful it was just sex and him using her rather than him looking for a whole emotional replacement. Idk if I would be able to handle complete replacement in all things marriage wise-if it wasn't emotionally tied for him it wasn't about "her" over "me". It was about her V and we all know all of us have one and it could have been any female. Part of her consequence was getting played. Screwing other people's spouses is just asking to be used, naive, risky and just stupid. There's plenty of single people in the world. If he doesn't feel enough shame to not cheat on his wife he sure as heck wouldn't care about using someone.
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All this is similar to my situation, but I am super thankful it was just sex and him using her rather than him looking for a whole emotional replacement. Idk if I would be able to handle complete replacement in all things marriage wise-if it wasn't emotionally tied for him it wasn't about "her" over "me". It was about her V and we all know all of us have one and it could have been any female. Part of her consequence was getting played. Screwing other people's spouses is just asking to be used, naive, risky and just stupid. There's plenty of single people in the world. If he doesn't feel enough shame to not cheat on his wife he sure as heck wouldn't care about using someone.