-I would never have sex with her. I respect her dad too much to do that. We're just friends, you know drinking buddies
-You're telling me that people have talked to you about my conduct over the course of three decades? Name me ONE woman who ever said I made her feel uncomfortable?
-I was only joking! I was only giving her compliments! I only dance with her to be friendly. You are too jealous and sensitive. I'm just a happy drunk.
-I was only on Ashley Madison once. It was nothing more than curiosity. I got curious because ads kept popping up on the porno sites. I didn't actually want to have an affair until you started acting like a bitter person.
-I don't remember why I took all of those selfies-I wasn't on any hook up sites or anything like that.
-I wasn't actually on the sex chats with men and women for all of those hours that the bill shows. I probably passed out with the phone in my hand.
-Oh that sex call phone number? I only called that one once.
-I know we agreed I wouldn't delete stuff but I deleted that email account so that you wouldn't be hurt. Can't we just move on from here-the new person that I am now? Can't we just look forward to our future? My therapist says we shouldn't dwell on the past.
-We're just friends but I guess we had a few texts that maybe went a little over the line. But it isn't sexting.
-You told the grown children that I have feelings for her. When I said I had feelings for her I meant feelings for a friend. You know, friend feelings.
-I'm not flirting, People are drawn to me everywhere I go because I'm extremely friendly and positive. I make people feel good. I engage with EVERYONE.
-You are trying to change everything about me.
-It was only once
-Oh this additional woman? Those communications are ok because she's my best friend, better than anyone even our best man. Ok well I guess not a better friend than him. Ok, on second thought she's not my best friend in life. She's my best friend in that area of my life, my work life. There's nothing wrong with us sending photos to each other or making romantic comments late at night. We're friends!
-Two affairs? Are you talking about that woman from 20 years ago?!?! pshhh I didn't even think of the troubles we had in our marriage from that-it was so long ago. It was only kissing, nothing more than that. I had forgotten all about that. I didnt remember that you were considering leaving the marriage.
-We said we love each other because after all it is ok for people to love people other than their spouses.
-I have no idea why that crazy _itch sent me texts, a love song, and said I should focus on servicing my needs. She's crazy - she told me not to tell her husband (My UH's best friend!) that she was calling me.
-I don't know why she'd tell our grown daughter that you and I have have attended "special parties" with her and her husband. She's crazy.
-I kissed the neighbor because it was her BIRTHDAY! I forgot that you told me that she was being mean to you and the kids.
-I don't remember that woman walking up and hugging me and him or to kissing me and him. She's just somebody we know from work. Who can remember that many years ago?
-I did NOT wink at the waitress. If I did it was unintentional or force of habit because I'm nice to everybody. If I did wink it's the same way I'd wink at anyone, waiter or waitress. Its just a form of friendliness.
-She's one of the guys, just like all of us other CEOs. We all send pictures of ourselves in bars. We have a song together just for dancing whenever we see each other but that's all it is, dancing.
-That one at work texts ALL of us to wish us a Happy Fathers Day at home; It's a group text. She's known the other guys since childhood and now I'm included in the group.
-Yes I love you, when you're smiling and when you're in a good mood. She was always smiling and doing nice things for me.
-I Crossed A Boundary
-I don't know why my family and everyone else except me at knew she was a problem in my cousin's marriage. That marriage was over anyway.
-Those particular half naked pictures of me were taken when I was drunk. Clearly you can see I was drunk. How can I remember something from that long ago? If I remember correctly I was going to send those as a joke to my buddy.
-I take lots of photos of myself with people, hugging them, so that I can remember the places I visited while traveling for work.
-I take selfies of me hugging EVERY employee at the Christmas party, not just her.
-When I shouted out to that stripper that I loved her, I didn't mean it.
-That was years ago that I used to go to strip clubs in the middle of the work day. I don't do that anymore.
-I don't remember telling you that I was having a problem with too much porn. No, I don't remember you offering to help me with that.
-I don't remember that you told me you want to give love and get love and this is your last try to save this marriage. I don't remember saying "I'm your man". I don't remember that our marriage was going great for a while right before I had an affair; I was out of control.
-I was on the phone into all hours of the night with FRIENDS. Its nothing inappropriate.
-Its just people that don't understand how outgoing I am.
-When I talked to the kids about our marriage and about your attitude it was only because we were ALL worried about YOU. I don't know why I didn't come to you and tell you that I was worried about you.
-I didn't say that but if I did you heard it wrong. You're always twisting things that I say. You know how even you have said that I like to embellish. You were always so hard to talk to.
-I don't have a sex addiction. Porn was a coping mechanism. It's not like I did it all day, everyday; it's not an addiction. It wasn't even a problem until the last couple of years.
-I would never have sex with
-I would never have sex with her. I respect her dad too much to do that. We're just friends, you know drinking buddies
-You're telling me that people have talked to you about my conduct over the course of three decades? Name me ONE woman who ever said I made her feel uncomfortable?
-I was only joking! I was only giving her compliments! I only dance with her to be friendly. You are too jealous and sensitive. I'm just a happy drunk.
-I was only on Ashley Madison once. It was nothing more than curiosity. I got curious because ads kept popping up on the porno sites. I didn't actually want to have an affair until you started acting like a bitter person.
-I don't remember why I took all of those selfies-I wasn't on any hook up sites or anything like that.
-I wasn't actually on the sex chats with men and women for all of those hours that the bill shows. I probably passed out with the phone in my hand.
-Oh that sex call phone number? I only called that one once.
-I know we agreed I wouldn't delete stuff but I deleted that email account so that you wouldn't be hurt. Can't we just move on from here-the new person that I am now? Can't we just look forward to our future? My therapist says we shouldn't dwell on the past.
-We're just friends but I guess we had a few texts that maybe went a little over the line. But it isn't sexting.
-You told the grown children that I have feelings for her. When I said I had feelings for her I meant feelings for a friend. You know, friend feelings.
-I'm not flirting, People are drawn to me everywhere I go because I'm extremely friendly and positive. I make people feel good. I engage with EVERYONE.
-You are trying to change everything about me.
-It was only once
-Oh this additional woman? Those communications are ok because she's my best friend, better than anyone even our best man. Ok well I guess not a better friend than him. Ok, on second thought she's not my best friend in life. She's my best friend in that area of my life, my work life. There's nothing wrong with us sending photos to each other or making romantic comments late at night. We're friends!
-Two affairs? Are you talking about that woman from 20 years ago?!?! pshhh I didn't even think of the troubles we had in our marriage from that-it was so long ago. It was only kissing, nothing more than that. I had forgotten all about that. I didnt remember that you were considering leaving the marriage.
-We said we love each other because after all it is ok for people to love people other than their spouses.
-I have no idea why that crazy _itch sent me texts, a love song, and said I should focus on servicing my needs. She's crazy - she told me not to tell her husband (My UH's best friend!) that she was calling me.
-I don't know why she'd tell our grown daughter that you and I have have attended "special parties" with her and her husband. She's crazy.
-I kissed the neighbor because it was her BIRTHDAY! I forgot that you told me that she was being mean to you and the kids.
-I don't remember that woman walking up and hugging me and him or to kissing me and him. She's just somebody we know from work. Who can remember that many years ago?
-I did NOT wink at the waitress. If I did it was unintentional or force of habit because I'm nice to everybody. If I did wink it's the same way I'd wink at anyone, waiter or waitress. Its just a form of friendliness.
-She's one of the guys, just like all of us other CEOs. We all send pictures of ourselves in bars. We have a song together just for dancing whenever we see each other but that's all it is, dancing.
-That one at work texts ALL of us to wish us a Happy Fathers Day at home; It's a group text. She's known the other guys since childhood and now I'm included in the group.
-Yes I love you, when you're smiling and when you're in a good mood. She was always smiling and doing nice things for me.
-I Crossed A Boundary
-I don't know why my family and everyone else except me at knew she was a problem in my cousin's marriage. That marriage was over anyway.
-Those particular half naked pictures of me were taken when I was drunk. Clearly you can see I was drunk. How can I remember something from that long ago? If I remember correctly I was going to send those as a joke to my buddy.
-I take lots of photos of myself with people, hugging them, so that I can remember the places I visited while traveling for work.
-I take selfies of me hugging EVERY employee at the Christmas party, not just her.
-When I shouted out to that stripper that I loved her, I didn't mean it.
-That was years ago that I used to go to strip clubs in the middle of the work day. I don't do that anymore.
-I don't remember telling you that I was having a problem with too much porn. No, I don't remember you offering to help me with that.
-I don't remember that you told me you want to give love and get love and this is your last try to save this marriage. I don't remember saying "I'm your man". I don't remember that our marriage was going great for a while right before I had an affair; I was out of control.
-I was on the phone into all hours of the night with FRIENDS. Its nothing inappropriate.
-Its just people that don't understand how outgoing I am.
-When I talked to the kids about our marriage and about your attitude it was only because we were ALL worried about YOU. I don't know why I didn't come to you and tell you that I was worried about you.
-I didn't say that but if I did you heard it wrong. You're always twisting things that I say. You know how even you have said that I like to embellish. You were always so hard to talk to.
-I don't have a sex addiction. Porn was a coping mechanism. It's not like I did it all day, everyday; it's not an addiction. It wasn't even a problem until the last couple of years.