Neither has mine

My husband does not want to take the blame for anything.  How do you move forward either way without closure?

It has been over 7 months--about 2 months I ago I discovered he has a borderline personality disorder and his whole way of thinking is distorted.  They can change but only if their internal pain outweights the benefits they are receiving.  I don't want a divorce but I cannot live with anyone who cannot be honest with me.    So very hard.   I need prayers.  I have been married for 26 years with 3 daughters and 2 of them refuses to have anything to do wth him and I don't talk with him unless absolutely necessary.  This is not easy but maybe the only way he will get the message.