What you have described is exactly what I’m goin thru since D_day 1.5 years ago. We’ve been married 23 years and although he said he would separate at the beginning he’s still at home, but has not shown any remorse or make me feel safe. He has not mentioned anything about the Ap since the declaration so I don’t know the details and really don’t want them as they give me triggers.
All I want is for him to voice his feelings and recommit to our future without feeling obligated to stay.
Feeling stuck
What you have described is exactly what I’m goin thru since D_day 1.5 years ago. We’ve been married 23 years and although he said he would separate at the beginning he’s still at home, but has not shown any remorse or make me feel safe. He has not mentioned anything about the Ap since the declaration so I don’t know the details and really don’t want them as they give me triggers.
All I want is for him to voice his feelings and recommit to our future without feeling obligated to stay.