This article was extremely helpful to me today. I’m 9 months from the day he first told me of the affair and 5 months from full disclosure and although the intense rage and shock has greatly subsided, my whole life structure (faith, belief in God’s goodness, view of myself) is fragile and completely turned upside down. Her statement about remembering days she woke up with a happy heart and feeling hopeless that she’d ever feel that again resonates.
I’m grateful for her honesty as it has given me a seed of hope and an example of how to move from a floundering and drowning grief and step forward and grieve in a way that is intentional and with purpose.
Thank you for sharing.
This was helpful
This article was extremely helpful to me today. I’m 9 months from the day he first told me of the affair and 5 months from full disclosure and although the intense rage and shock has greatly subsided, my whole life structure (faith, belief in God’s goodness, view of myself) is fragile and completely turned upside down. Her statement about remembering days she woke up with a happy heart and feeling hopeless that she’d ever feel that again resonates.
I’m grateful for her honesty as it has given me a seed of hope and an example of how to move from a floundering and drowning grief and step forward and grieve in a way that is intentional and with purpose.
Thank you for sharing.