I'm with you man, I dont see a lot of success stories from when the women have affairs either. In my case my wife went from "I love you so much, you're all I ever dreamed of" to having an affair the next weekend and now she swears she was never happy, she left me with our two kids, blaimed me for every bad thing that has ever happened to her and made me feel like dirt. Still the love of Christ has allowed me to forgive her. She has no intention of saving our marriage, i agree it seems like when women do it, they can justify it and are too far gone to forgive themselves. I'm so happy for all of you that have saved your marriages and I do believe it will be worth it in the end for you, but I would be encouraged to hear from a women who has strayed and returned to work it out.
I'm with you man
I'm with you man, I dont see a lot of success stories from when the women have affairs either. In my case my wife went from "I love you so much, you're all I ever dreamed of" to having an affair the next weekend and now she swears she was never happy, she left me with our two kids, blaimed me for every bad thing that has ever happened to her and made me feel like dirt. Still the love of Christ has allowed me to forgive her. She has no intention of saving our marriage, i agree it seems like when women do it, they can justify it and are too far gone to forgive themselves. I'm so happy for all of you that have saved your marriages and I do believe it will be worth it in the end for you, but I would be encouraged to hear from a women who has strayed and returned to work it out.