I am the betrayed spouse, but i think it is the same for the Unfaithful..yes!! My spouse gave Himself permission to act out, instead.of reach out. He was dependent on me, for his happiness, and when i couldn't supply the overwhelming amount of affirmation , he secretly slipped away. Ended up in a codependent relationship with one woman for years, until reality set in. This is not a female only ,.or betrayed only , struggle..
I am the betrayed spouse, but
I am the betrayed spouse, but i think it is the same for the Unfaithful..yes!! My spouse gave Himself permission to act out, instead.of reach out. He was dependent on me, for his happiness, and when i couldn't supply the overwhelming amount of affirmation , he secretly slipped away. Ended up in a codependent relationship with one woman for years, until reality set in. This is not a female only ,.or betrayed only , struggle..