hi giveittoGod....i'm not sure. no one really knows his motives and heart but God and him. the truth is, he may be genuine in his desire to work it out and get healthy...or there could be ulterior motives. the fact that he STILL isn't open to getting expert help is a red flag to me and very concerning. if you're wanting to talk things through and if you're wanting to help each other heal or even help YOU heal, why would he be opposed to expert care? so that's another red flag to me which is concerning for sure. i would go at a pace you feel safe with and comfortable with. i would also not go in blind and just let your guard down blindly. i hope that helps and gives you some perspective.
tough questions...
hi giveittoGod....i'm not sure. no one really knows his motives and heart but God and him. the truth is, he may be genuine in his desire to work it out and get healthy...or there could be ulterior motives. the fact that he STILL isn't open to getting expert help is a red flag to me and very concerning. if you're wanting to talk things through and if you're wanting to help each other heal or even help YOU heal, why would he be opposed to expert care? so that's another red flag to me which is concerning for sure. i would go at a pace you feel safe with and comfortable with. i would also not go in blind and just let your guard down blindly. i hope that helps and gives you some perspective.