for starters, how long ago was the divorce final my friend and how long ago was the original disclosure? it's a normal part of grieving my friend. you're in many ways, grieving through this process and it takes time to move beyond the pain and trauma of it all. you'll feel this way for a while...but it will heal and you'll find new life and maybe even new desire for romance and another relationship. but don't rush it and don't be surprised at the enormous grief you're facing. i can't say enough about the need to grieve properly as it's essential to your own healing and your own timeline. what work are you doing to heal? courses? professional help? books? i'll make more suggestions for you if you'll share a few more bits of information and answers to my questions. take care for now my friend. be safe.
hi there...
for starters, how long ago was the divorce final my friend and how long ago was the original disclosure? it's a normal part of grieving my friend. you're in many ways, grieving through this process and it takes time to move beyond the pain and trauma of it all. you'll feel this way for a while...but it will heal and you'll find new life and maybe even new desire for romance and another relationship. but don't rush it and don't be surprised at the enormous grief you're facing. i can't say enough about the need to grieve properly as it's essential to your own healing and your own timeline. what work are you doing to heal? courses? professional help? books? i'll make more suggestions for you if you'll share a few more bits of information and answers to my questions. take care for now my friend. be safe.