I know this article is 2 years old, but is very timely for me today. We are at the anniversary of discovery. Forgiveness has been difficult for me to get to, but articles like this help me realize that if both husband and wife want to make marriage work it is going to take effort. With that effort there is going to be pain. Some pain is going to be more severe than others. This type of betrayal tries to undermine the foundations of marriage. But I believe that if your foundation is in Christ, first as the individual then as a couple no outside force can tear it down. This does not take away the hurt or the feelings of distrust. All of these types of things, from both spouses, have to be worked through on a daily basis. I am still hurting but I am also still healing. Thank you for this post.
Wanting to forgive
I know this article is 2 years old, but is very timely for me today. We are at the anniversary of discovery. Forgiveness has been difficult for me to get to, but articles like this help me realize that if both husband and wife want to make marriage work it is going to take effort. With that effort there is going to be pain. Some pain is going to be more severe than others. This type of betrayal tries to undermine the foundations of marriage. But I believe that if your foundation is in Christ, first as the individual then as a couple no outside force can tear it down. This does not take away the hurt or the feelings of distrust. All of these types of things, from both spouses, have to be worked through on a daily basis. I am still hurting but I am also still healing. Thank you for this post.