Thank you for sharing. I find it very helpful to hear the thoughts of the unfaithful. It was difficult for me to understand that the guilt and shame doesn't come all at once. I watched this very strange and confusing phenomenon happen as the light slowly but surely turned on for my husband. I also found it so hard to comprehend that the people who chose to commit such atrocities could be capable of feeling such pain, guilt and remorse for their actions. It is not easy at all to find your footing in the new world in which you live after infidelity has occured. The pain, remorse and guilt compounded with the caring, compassionate, I will do anything to save my marriage attitude from my husband is what gets me through the darkest days of my life. May God bless all of those who are struggling to see the light after an affair.
The light
Thank you for sharing. I find it very helpful to hear the thoughts of the unfaithful. It was difficult for me to understand that the guilt and shame doesn't come all at once. I watched this very strange and confusing phenomenon happen as the light slowly but surely turned on for my husband. I also found it so hard to comprehend that the people who chose to commit such atrocities could be capable of feeling such pain, guilt and remorse for their actions. It is not easy at all to find your footing in the new world in which you live after infidelity has occured. The pain, remorse and guilt compounded with the caring, compassionate, I will do anything to save my marriage attitude from my husband is what gets me through the darkest days of my life. May God bless all of those who are struggling to see the light after an affair.