I know this to be true about my husband and he knows it as well. He was horribly sexually abused by his church youth leader as a pre-teen 40+ years ago. He has had a hard time finding a proper counselor. I can tell he has PTSD and doesn't deal well with any drama, including discussing the affair with me. He has tried very hard in his own way to be there for me now, and he has apologized several times, but I wonder if we can make it if he won't go to counseling.
Forgiveness
I know this to be true about my husband and he knows it as well. He was horribly sexually abused by his church youth leader as a pre-teen 40+ years ago. He has had a hard time finding a proper counselor. I can tell he has PTSD and doesn't deal well with any drama, including discussing the affair with me. He has tried very hard in his own way to be there for me now, and he has apologized several times, but I wonder if we can make it if he won't go to counseling.