Thought I had a handle on it.

Samuel. I thought Ihad a handle on things until a trigger last month. I am an emotional wreck again. It's been 3 years since I overheard that first conversation between them. Tons of circumstantial evidence since but no smoking gun. She changed jobs and Iam sure it is over but she has never admitted the affair. Most people tell me not to expect a confession and either accept it or leave. I don't want to leave but I can't accept that she won't come clean and help me heal. Some counselors say a full confession is the starting point. What is your take on expecting full disclosure? I am to the point of leaving just to regain my sanity.