My husband found things in my journals from when I was being unfaithful. It is hard to defend and describe that they were more fantasy and fleeting feelings than anything real. I even knew that at the time. Some of it was stories or poems that were my way of getting rid of the feelings of the affairs. But now, because he read them and all my journal entries are dated, they are trigger dates for him. He has no ears for any explanation of momentary insanity so I just go along with his interpretations instead of arguing.
Journals/Snooping
My husband found things in my journals from when I was being unfaithful. It is hard to defend and describe that they were more fantasy and fleeting feelings than anything real. I even knew that at the time. Some of it was stories or poems that were my way of getting rid of the feelings of the affairs. But now, because he read them and all my journal entries are dated, they are trigger dates for him. He has no ears for any explanation of momentary insanity so I just go along with his interpretations instead of arguing.