Paralyzed

16 days since D-day although it feels like a lifetime ago. My husband(the betrayer) has a psychologist, we have a marriage counsellor, my son has a psychologist and I have a psychiatrist but none of this professional help is amounting to any progression, I am more confused than ever. I think he needs to get out then the cold reality of our finances makes this near impossible, I dont know if creating geographical distance makes it easier to move forward or not, how do couples make progress at this time when you are both unsure of what you want?