I can relate!!!

I can definitely relate to your comment. I've been with my husband now for 27 years, have 3 kids together and would have never imagined myself in this situation. I'm at that point too right now where I'm not even sure what it is I want. Do I want to stay and work it out? I feel like I've tried so darn hard to save the marriage already, when all he did was turn to another woman-now I know why my efforts went unnoticed. I'm going to therapy in hopes I can figure it out, but I'm not lost in fantasy world either. I told my husband it is as though I've been with a stranger for the past year.