I can honestly say that after 30 years of marriage, I have never been tempted. When I see someone that is a pretty package, I think of my spouse's good qualities and the temptation vanishes.. That new person never cleaned up your barf or brought you something you forgot, or stepped in when you were frustrated with the kids. Why would I throw that away? I make it a point to appreciate my spouse. That other person isn't real. You might think you know them, but you don't really know someone until you've experience life with them.
Temptation
I can honestly say that after 30 years of marriage, I have never been tempted. When I see someone that is a pretty package, I think of my spouse's good qualities and the temptation vanishes.. That new person never cleaned up your barf or brought you something you forgot, or stepped in when you were frustrated with the kids. Why would I throw that away? I make it a point to appreciate my spouse. That other person isn't real. You might think you know them, but you don't really know someone until you've experience life with them.