Minny T I hope you are well

Minny T I hope you are well now. Your comment is four years old but I don’t see that it was ever responded to. That sounds completely awful, and I can completely relate to the dismissive and defensive nature of that response—and the fresh pain it generates. So I pray that you are at least a little happier and more at peace one way or another.

I would also love to hear a reply to Minnie T’s comment. Recovery is so far from rainbows and butterflies, and “keep yourself busy”, “make new memories”, “schedule your grief”, and silence (the worst reply of all to someone who has been ignored in favor of another) does not cut it.