This is what it's about for me seeking closure.. Do your searching inwardly all you need to do for yourself. The gut wrenching pain our unfaithful spouse is causing us & family searching in pain causes me more pain that constantly lingers. If I knew there was a purpose of course it would make it easier. I may never find out if our pain has a purpose. Maybe it's for my children's future when their about to take a wrong turn they can reminisce & make the right moral choice, knowing what they are about to undo . That would be well worth it so they don't suffer or cause their spouse or another family to suffer. Maybe the purpose of our pain has already reached out to someone who almost made a wrong choice by seeing the pain the betrayed spouse carries every day. But without knowing the purpose is there closure?
Need a purpose
This is what it's about for me seeking closure.. Do your searching inwardly all you need to do for yourself. The gut wrenching pain our unfaithful spouse is causing us & family searching in pain causes me more pain that constantly lingers. If I knew there was a purpose of course it would make it easier. I may never find out if our pain has a purpose. Maybe it's for my children's future when their about to take a wrong turn they can reminisce & make the right moral choice, knowing what they are about to undo . That would be well worth it so they don't suffer or cause their spouse or another family to suffer. Maybe the purpose of our pain has already reached out to someone who almost made a wrong choice by seeing the pain the betrayed spouse carries every day. But without knowing the purpose is there closure?